I have chronic prostatitis for 5 years. So it is no long remission, even not speaking about cure - at least i want to get long enough remission. Because 2-3 week i stop antibiotics treatment i feel my prostate swelled and inflamed, urinate disorder, painful ejaculation.
In one word, my old "lovely" story comes "back to daddy" each time.
In a while, i had this thought:
"Does my wife pass me an infection constantly - even she has no infection, has no symptoms, her tests that she made are negative.
So it is true that even bacteria cant be found in prostate fluid or urine (after prostate massage) it is still be bacterial prostatitis.
Therefore IT MAY BE THE SAME CASE BY MY WIFE: her test may be also negative while she really has any kind of bacteria that can damage my prostate !!!
May be i should make love (vaginal) only with condom ?
I already avoid my wife suck me - it is no much pleasure doing it with condom , so i disclaimed it. Anal - always with in, i wish i was so smart before 
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